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Delete Learn

Dating apps profit when you stay single. We're building one that doesn't. While we work on the app, here's what we've learned about relationships — backed by research, explained like a friend.

What You’ll Learn

Know Yourself First

Most relationships fail because people don’t know themselves. Attachment styles, conflict patterns, emotional needs — understand your own before trying to understand someone else’s.

The Science of Attraction

What’s actually happening in your brain when you “fall in love”? Spoiler: that obsessive feeling isn’t love — it’s limerence. And understanding the difference changes everything.

The Neurodivergent Lens

Dating with ADHD, autism, or anxiety is different. The hyperfocus phase, rejection sensitivity, time blindness — finally, content that gets it.

More Coming Soon

Compatibility, building long-term bonds, when to walk away. We’re adding new content regularly.

How This Works

Each chapter follows the same format:

  1. Hook — A scenario you’ll probably recognize
  2. The science — What research actually says (no jargon)
  3. Real examples — Stories that feel like “wait, that’s exactly what happened to me”
  4. Self-reflection — Questions to think about
  5. Action — One thing you can do differently

No fluff. No dating advice clichés. Just honest, research-backed insights — like a smart friend who happens to have read all the studies.


This is Delete Learn. Part of Delete — a dating app designed to be deleted.